Today was Grandparent and Special friends day at my school. The day was divided into four half hour sections and up to four families could sign up for each slot. It was a steady flow of grandparents, two parents, and a babysitter. The kids were wonderful. It was such a nice experience for the grandparents. I am sure some of them contribute, so it must be nice to see first hand the benefits of Montessori. I am sure also that some are skeptical and it was wonderful to see their amazement of what these little children were doing. The highlight of the morning was this one mother who came. I am not sure if there was no grandparent or if she just didn't understand the day ,but her child is a quite a special child. She has trouble focusing and has loads of
unmanageable energy-BUT when she takes out work she has a calm about her that Maria Montessori would have loved to have seen. The work takes her out of her own
ciaos and allows her to feel calm. The mother had never seen her child this way. She had no idea what her little girl was capable of. At times she had tears in her eyes as she sat and watched her daughter. This family had not re-enrolled for next year due to money issues, but today as she was leaving she was going to do her best to find the money to send her next year. I hope she finds it. I can not really explain the transformation that this child undergoes when she takes out the work. It is truly amazing.
Another child was looking sad, I asked her if anyone was coming and she told me that no, if they brought her grandmother there she would not be able to understand where she was. I felt for the child and at the same time took a moment to pause and be thankful that my own children know all four of their grandparents. What a true and rare gift- one that I may sometimes take for granted.
When ever I spend time with older people I feel very humble and somewhat reflective. That poem "A hundred Years from now" always pops in my head.